A Blossom of pinkness for blossom. .

Monday, 24 December 2012

Happy Holidays

Merry Christmas to Everyone who has visited my little blog and a very happy and healthy 2013!!!!

Sunday, 23 December 2012

the Beast within....

how she craves the wicked kiss of His pain on her flesh
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves the caress of the sweet sting of the flogger on her body
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves to redden her pale skin with His mark
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves to feel His cock throb with each stroke on her skin
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves that her salted tears caress His rigid flesh as He feeds her
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves to feel Him pump His warm load into her mouth
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves to clean that rigid flesh when He has done with her
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

how she craves to feel His mouth raping kisses upon her lips
she wants to feed the Beast within Him

she craves Him , she needs Him, she wants Him, she feeds Him .......

Friday, 14 December 2012

so so sad

i am so so sorry to hear such horrible news this evening about those poor little children, so innocent, and yet their little lives and those that were there to look after them wiped out because of some maniac....my prayers and thoughts are with those families.

Saturday, 8 December 2012

Electrical Play

In our world of safe, sane and consensual practices Master and this girl have been thinking of exploring and embarking on Electrical Play, now it feels scary to even think that this girl is going to read up on this never mind that she may be trying it out at some point!!!! but its exciting at the same time in a wierd way...smiles.

Now of course this girl knows that Master will have His girls safety at heart but at the same time this girl is of course a little anxious given that W/we are in an LDR and not having done anything like this before she was just wondering if any of you have done any Electrical Play using a TENS unit, she would be interested to know what any of her readers thought of this little item if they have used one in the past.  Of course great care and a lot of reading will ensue before W/we actually try this out but this girl is a little curious to know how it feels, would others recommend this little machine or something else?

Wednesday, 21 November 2012

Happy Holiday

i just wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends and lurkers across the water...i hope you all have a  fantastic day.

Tuesday, 20 November 2012

Wierd but not Wonderful

i really dont know what possesses people, what would anyone get out of having a sexual relationship with a skeleton!!!!  this is a link to a story in the daily mail about a woman who got a kick out of this...find it hard to believe but then the world is full of wierd but not wonderful people.


Sunday, 4 November 2012

Fantasy into Reality

i have always fantasised about getting a corset piercing done, i personally feel this type of play is very exciting and so sexy looking when it is finished.  i never thought that i would actually ever get to experience this but when i met with Master last month my fantasy finally came true, i received my corset piercing, He showed me that each needle was still wrapped in its package, the little wipes that would clean each area, the bag He would put the used needles into when He was finished with them and the gloves He would use to carry out this scene safely.  

i was warm and content at this point in our time together after the other disciplines W/we had done together so i accepted the delicious pain that went with this one also, i loved the feel of the tiny little needles as He used them expertly on my back to pierce into my skin. oh to have that feeling again, im not saying i wasn't nervous and at one point i did kick my legs up and down on the bed to cope with the pain...laughs..got a swift smack on the ass to remind me to stay still...lol.....but oh what joy i felt as i started to relax and let the feelings flow through me and a little bit of sub space was felt too.  W/we shall be doing this again....smiles.

so i was wondering if any of my readers would like to share a moment of when their fantasy turned into reality??

Tuesday, 30 October 2012


Hello everyone

just wanted to say my thoughts and prayers are with you all on the other side of the world...hopefully you are all safe and sound.

blossom xx

Sunday, 14 October 2012


This was shared with this girl from a  tumblr site and well it expresses so well how this girl feels and thought it may resonate with a few of you...smiles

I am free

Sir asked me to sit on the floor here.
I don’t know why, I don’t know for how long.
In the past I might have asked.
Or I might have been curious.
But not anymore…

Sir has erected unseen boundaries around me.
It’s incredibly safe and secure in there.
There’s plenty of space, it’s not constraining at all.
The day I experienced the first taste of pure freedom,
Was when I submitted fully and finally gave him everything.
And I mean… everything.

Then he knew the darkest parts of me.
 I had nothing left, nothing hidden.

I was empty, a shell.
But it also meant I now had nothing to lose…
And Sir did an amazing thing.
A simple thing.
But it made all the difference:
He accepted me.

His love didn’t diminish one iota.
He accepted me. Dark parts, ugly parts, flaws, and all.
That was the day my eyes opened.
That was the day I finally understood the true freedom of submission.
It rang like a bell.
Then I was no longer empty, no longer a shell.
I began to fill up.
Fill up with him.

I am his possession, I have no problem saying it.
But it’s more than that: He possesses me.
See the distinction?
Don’t think I’m an automaton, though.
I have my own interests.
I go out with my friends.
I have a life.
But I always return to his domain.

And when I do, I give up everything.
It’s easy now.
Like coming in from the cold, slipping off your coat,
And entering a warm comfortable room.
The freedom, oh the freedom!
It’s almost a physical feeling that comes over me.
Not holding on to anything.
Letting everything drop, letting everything go.
I am filled with him. Only him. Everything him.

Inside his walls, his world, his domain, I am free.
I can be the way I truly want to be.
People don’t seem to understand this, but:
I don’t serve him, I give to him.
Not because he makes me, but because I want to.
He uses me in any way he pleases,
Because I gave myself to him.

Sir asked me to sit on the floor here.
I don’t know why, I don’t know for how long.
In the past I might have asked.
Or I might have been curious.
But not anymore…

Now I wait for him. Simply wait and nothing else.
And it fills me with indescribable joy to do so.
Because I am in his world.
Because I am free.

Friday, 12 October 2012

Just beautiful

Just beautiful...i would love nothing more than to sit by that tree in the arms of a certain Master...sighs

  1. This is just gorgeous!

Sunday, 7 October 2012

In His hands

This little poem says so much.....

In His hands she found discipline
In His hands she found pain
In His hands she found pleasure
In His hands she found passion
In His hands she found tenderness
In His hands she found acceptance
In His hands she found submission
In His hands she found freedom
In His hands she found fear and respect
In His hands she found love and selflessness
In His hands she found her self
In His hands she found her thirsts and hungers were quenched 

In Her He found even more…

Sunday, 30 September 2012

Home Boo Hoo

Hi All

How are you all keeping, im back home again and boy trying to get my body clock back into sync is bloody difficult, up at all wierd and wonderful hours but i am making good use of that time this time around as there was a load of washing and housework waiting for me on my return!!! how nice, arent kids so good to their parents leaving them something to do incase they missed doing any housework...ggggrrrrr, maybe some day that will all change...lol

suffice to say i had a brilliant holiday in more ways than one....yyaaayyy, had a lovely time with that certain someone which was amazing...smiles

now back to work oh am sooooo looking forward to that...NOT..boo hoo, oh how i wish i could stay on permanent holiday.

Thursday, 13 September 2012


will be away for a couple of weeks....hhhmmmm wonder who i will be seeing!!!!!...big smiles
now for some chilling out....aaahhhhhh can feel that warm sun already...

catch up with you all when i return.....

Sunday, 9 September 2012


Hi folks

for a little bit of fun and all those in love  i found this little site where you can carve your name on a tree in the forest of love ...smiles  happy carving!!!


Sunday, 2 September 2012

Task Reflection

i thought i would reflect on the past task of  my orgasm denial over the past 31 days....never did i think i would  be able to do it, but actually i surprised myself and well of course Master is totally proud of me for surviving this and finishing the task.  during the task Master asked me a couple of times if i would like to have my release especially during the time that my sexual frustration was at its highest, a bit sadistic of Him, knowing full well the choice for me to orgasm still rested with Him... but no i thought, i didnt want to disappoint Master, i had come on so far and to undo all that i had achieved up until that point, so i declined and Master was very proud that i wanted to carry on and see it through to the end...smiles

during the first couple of weeks it was fine, i managed rightly but there was no teasing or arousing myself during that time, Master had me do total abstinence only to clean or dry myself and then it had to be very briefly.  But the following days after that Master had me edged a few times each day, to keep myself aroused all the time, He tormented me, such sexy thoughts, and times on cam with each O/other, wearing of pegs and deep heat on His special area, wow thats a bugger to put up with, the intense deep painful heat you feel especially when the clit is so swollen and aroused...but then falling into such deliciousness when the main heat subsides and then spreads right through the aroused area.

the frustration i felt at times, the moods, the anger i felt at times...to the point of crying where i was so frustrated with everything, even small tasks were major to me because my thoughts were just consumed with having an orgasm, nothing else really mattered except that.  This is where Master stepped in and put me back on track, at times i thought i could orgasm and not tell Him, He wouldnt know but that would be defeating the whole purpose of the task and letting Him down as well as myself.  So He explained to me why i was feeling this way and to step back from whatever i was doing, breathe, take a few minutes and start again with what i was getting frustrated at doing. so those weeks were hard going at times, edging all the time and not being able to go beyond that but it got to the point that even that was better than nothing...smiles, but how i yearned for release each time...i felt it cruel at times that Master would torture me so, i felt if i carried on i would loose the sexual urge with it being curtailed so, again Master stepped in here and helped me through this, keeping me excited and aroused throughout this task and thought about what was the whole point of this task.

but i managed to last the full 31 days...yyyaaayyy for me.. Master did allow me to finally have my release....Huge smiles and boy did i need it, yes i certainly did and Master got to watch me too...the feeling that surged through me was unbelieveable, the pain that i felt deep inside my clit as the orgasm took over my body and then as that subsided i cried, i couldnt believe it, i cried, cried with the relief, cried because of all the emotional pent up feelings i had been keeping, cried as the frustrated sexual feelings that left me, Master loved seeing this if not more than seeing me orgasm for him.

so what was the reason of undertaking a task like this???   well it is actually something that both Master and i enjoy doing, its a huge turn on for me really to have the denial, the building up of arousal, the teasing of oneself, the tormenting that i receive from Master.  but its also about the mental control as well as the physical control that Master has over me, and feeling His control means more than anything to me especially with being in a LDR, and also with being in constant denial, having the craving and need to orgasm meant that Master was constantly in my thoughts....not that He isnt always in my thoughts but moreso during this as i knew i was constantly pleasing Him, because Master likes me being a horny needy little slut for Him and boy was i during this time!!!!...smiles.

Friday, 31 August 2012

She waits

Well this is the last day of my August denial.. yyyyaaaayyyy..but now i have to wait to see if Master will allow me the release or to wait a while longer .....hopefully He will look favourably on me!!!!...fingers and legs crossed....oooopppp not allowed to cross legs....laughs.

Monday, 27 August 2012

Thank You

Well i just wanted to say a massive thank you to each and everyone of you who have or currently are visiting my little blog...smiles...it really does mean a lot to know that what i put into it is of interest to readers.
Again a big thank you.

Saturday, 25 August 2012


oh how frustrated i am feeling at the moment....this is tough at the moment.....i just want release now, craving it badly, another week to go and even then may not be allowed the orgasm, lets hope Master isnt feeling too Sadistic!!!! by the end of the week...smiles prettily at Master...

just needed to say this!!!! 

Sunday, 19 August 2012

New toy

Master has found another favourite toy now...and well after the little training session W/we had this morning He will be using it more often...it leaves such lovely welts!!!!....again something so simple and non expensive that gives one such a thrill...it doesnt always have to be expensive toys just what comes to hand really...literally!!!...lol

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

Update on Denial

Hello readers

i thought i would give you a short update you on how i am getting along with my denial task.  its now my 15th day of abstinence from having an orgasm.  for the first 13 days it was total abstinence whereby i was not allowed to touch myself except when showering or cleaning myself.  that was difficult enough as i lay in bed at nights dying to touch myself, that forbidden pleasure was hard going at times but i managed ...smiles

now Master is upping things a notch or two or three....smiles...Master has an affinity for deep heat!!!! well you can imagine what went on first  a number of times a day...smiles...boy does that stuff burn but then such a gorgeous warm sensation flows through after...yummy.  this girl has to edge so many times before she sleeps also, so now Master is in full flow in His most favourite past-time...torturing His slut...smiles  for example today Master had me wear the tack bra for my whole working day that was 10 hours from the moment the bra went on until i took it off when i got home.  feeling the constant pain the whole time, times bearable other times irritable because i just wanted them out of my bra...laughs...so for a treat for doing so well today Master let me wear His butt plug....though on the other hand He has me wearing my nipple clamps this evening as another form of torture!!!!

so now its getting more difficult in that i have to be very very careful i dont just go beyond the limit of what i am allowed to do...but boy it is so so tempting...smiles

Tuesday, 7 August 2012

Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Denial for August

Master has a love for Orgasm Control and Denial for some strange reason...smiles...who am i kidding dont all Dominants love these...and well Master now Owns mine...smiles

As part of my training of Masters control both mentally and physically of me He has decided that i will have Orgasm Denial for the whole month of August!!!!! with a few tortuous tasks thrown in for good measure.  He will instruct me each day whether i am to pleasure myself or abstain. He may then decide whether or not to extend the denial at the end of the month depending on how i am coping or needy i get or how much more tortuous He may want to be.  i want to make Him proud of me during this....wish me luck!!!!

Saturday, 28 July 2012


  • Wooden spoons have been common

    each time i see a wooden spoon i think ouch!!! and then mmmmm...smiles

Monday, 23 July 2012

Tack Bra

(mine wasnt as good as this one)

i dont have a lot of experience with pain, something that was never on my radar when it came to my submission, my biggest thrill from my previous relationship was complete control over me, but no matter how much i pushed for this it didnt really happen for me, all one sided on my part...but we learn by these mistakes.

But since i have been with Master He has taught this girl to embrace pain, to embrace the delicious feeling one gets from marking oneself...smiles...never ever in a million years did i think that i would ever do this, would ever get to experience subspace through this, but i have with Him...He is absolutely wonderful and wicked with it...laughs

He has been introducing little things for me to try which involves pain, small steps and i really do admire any slave that can accept the pain that is inflicted on them from their Master's, true masochists...well i am just starting on that road and anything that i have done to date is mild compared to what they do but its major to me..and Master is very proud of His girl for this...smiles.

So i just wanted to mention a little task i had to do yesterday which involved thumb tacks, cardboard and inserting it into the cups of my bra....well you can imagine how nervous i was to wear something like this, but i have been craving some type of pain and Master thought it would be a good way to get this without drawing much attention to myself.  So off i set and made it up.

it was like a scene out of blue peter (a childrens programme over this side of the schuck!!! which shows you how to make things...lol) got my cardboard and thumb tacks, i used toothpaste cardboard as it was the right length and put in around 10 thumb tacks in each piece and inserted it into my bra....boy did they pinch when going it and moving them around so it felt comfortable, if you can say that with pins digging into ones breasts...laughs

i thought i would only last a little while wearing this but actually i kept them in for over 3 hours (smug look on face...lol) and during that time i put pressure onto my breasts either through leaning on them or folding my arms so i could press them deeper into the breast tissue or just use my hands and push against them...looking at the little row of pins through my shirt and bra looked so sexy too...smiles..that feeling of pinching and hurting anytime i moved was amazing and i felt it constantly for the whole time...that brought my submission to the fore and i loved every moment of it.

the pain also of removing them and pulling some of the tacks out of the breast was quite painful too but such  a beautiful row of little pin points were left in my breasts, Master loved seeing these and was very proud of His girl that she was wearing His mark...He insists she wears His mark as often as she can...and this girl loves to wear it also....so i was quite proud of those little marks and they are still there even if they are faint now...but i love them and so does Master...smiles

Master is so taken with them that He says they will be a regular occurance along with something else He has me do!!!! as well as have me make a bigger one which will cover more of the breast....delicious!!!...what a lucky slave i am...smiles.

Monday, 16 July 2012

i want

i want to feel His lips upon mine
i want to feel His tongue tease mine
i want to feel His teeth bite into my shoulder
i want to feel His hands upon my breasts
i want to feel His breath upon my neck
i want to feel His naked skin against mine
i want to feel my fingers trace over the whole of His body
i want to feel His hardness push against me
i want to feel the urgency of His passion in His kiss
i want to feel His legs inter-twinning with mine
i want to feel Him entering me
i want to feel the thrusting of His body against me
i want to feel Him take my all
i want, oh how do i want

Sunday, 15 July 2012


  • “All my soul follows you, love encircles you and I live in being yours.” -Robert Browning

Sunday, 8 July 2012

Deliciously Happy

This girl is very happy to let her readers know that she has a very special and wonderful Master in her life...smiles.  She is very proud to say that she is now His Owned slut slave.  W/we have been T/together for quite a few wonderful months now and every day is a joy being with Him.  He has shown this girl what it means to be truly submissive to Him and she continues to learn everyday with Him.  She has experienced so much with Him in the short time W/we have been T/together including her first experience of subspace, in fact there have been a lot of first times for this girl with Him.  He has taken control over this girl's life and she has happily surrendered it to Him.  He inspires this girl to be His perfect slave and she strives to give Him what He wants and needs.  This girl never thought she would find anyone ever again but how wrong was she,  she has finally begun her journey with the most perfect Man she has ever met, He is Loving, Inspirational, Trusting, Honest, Compassionate, Firm, Fair and so much more...smiles...this girls life is pure bliss.


hi not too sure if many of my readers would be aware of this but there is a virus that is due to attack pc's on Monday so i saw this article and thought it may be of interest to you, you can check if your pc is infected and it tells you what website to go to to fix it....smiles

Saturday, 7 July 2012

Crotch ropes

A crotch rope is a bondage technique which involves the tying of rope around a woman's waist which is then passed between the labia to apply painful or pleasurable pressure to the female genitals. Crotch rope most commonly uses rope, but straps or a harness of sorts may also be used, today i am using lace cord, so all types of cord can be used.  It can be tied over clothing or directly onto the skin, and can be worn under clothing or in full view.  i have been wearing mine underneath my clothes today and well all i can say is WOW i love it....smiles...the feel of it rubbing against you as you stretch, sit, bend...delicious and there is a 'hot little knot on a certain little spot' which is doubly delicious!!!!  maybe mine isnt to the standard as this one (though it isnt far off!!).. but it certainly does the trick...and to finally be in some type of bondage, i just love bondage and now to actually wear it, and go about day to day stuff wearing it feels naughty and absolutely amazing especially when its worn for someone special...smiles

There is such a sense of tease along with denial, the sweet torturous pleasure of denial, if one can call it sweet...smiles....but there is something beautiful i feel to give up the pleasure of orgasm to One, for them to Own that pleasure and how it is brought more into focus than when wearing a crotch rope, it totally reminds you that not everything belongs to you anymore!!!!

Wednesday, 4 July 2012


Salutation to the Dawn - Kalidasa
Look to this day!
For it is life, the very life of life
In its brief course
Lie all the verities and realities of your existence:
the bliss of growth
the glory of action
the splendour of achievement
For yesterday is but a dream
And tomorrow is only a vision
But today well lived makes yesterday a dream of happiness
And every tomorrow a vision of hope
Look well, therefore, to this day
Such is the salutation to the dawn

Wednesday, 27 June 2012

Fine Dinning

Well i just wondered would any of my readers pay to have a meal like this served to them!!!!...lol...it wouldnt be my taste...smiles


Saturday, 16 June 2012


hi i just thought i would ask the question:

How do you handle your owner’s disappointment in you or your performance (in a task)- or is this a situation that does not occur for you?

in the past i found that very hard to handle, through his words and actions, i found it difficult to deal with and took me days to get back over it again, i would have kept apologising for my lack of enthusiasm in completing a task.  But then again when i think about it, once it had of been discussed between us (which didnt happen that often) we should have moved on, but he didnt he let me feel that hurt for days when you disappoint one who owns and controls you.

Sunday, 10 June 2012


Fisting is a sexual activity that involves inserting a hand into the vagina or in some cases the rectum if one is brave enough!!!.  Once insertion is complete, the fingers either naturally clench into a fist or remain straight .  Fisting may be performed with or without a partner.  There are great risks when Fisting and it can cause  serious injury when it isnt done right so its important that you use a safeword if you are not happy. 

This is a hard limit of mine but edging towards soft limit again, in that the only time this happened to me i got hurt, and ended up bleeding because the other person didnt prepare me, was very rough and forceful before i knew what was happening he had just shoved 4 fingers inside of me thinking that this would do the job basically, i was told by him that he knew how to do it, but it was a hard lesson learned by me.   i was in tears when i realised what had just happened and stopped him immediately, but i was already bleeding by then, he did panic when he realised what he done, but it was too late,  i was sore for days after and it put me off as you can image to think about even trying it again, yet it was something that i really wanted to experience but in a much more relaxed situation.   But i am thinking maybe i should look at this again!!! it is something that i would love to try but under the right circumstances this time and i will be more careful...smiles

But i was just wondering what others thought about fisting?  Have you tried it? did you like it? how long did it take you to be able to do it?  is it something that both your Master and you enjoy? 

Thursday, 31 May 2012

Sudden Change

  • i just thought i would pose a question to my readers, something that has happened to me and may happen to O/others.

    If you are in an M/s or D/s relationship and are largely dependent on your Owner, have you discussed what would happen if something fatal happened to your Owner or yourself, or if either of You went into hospital, thinking mostly if you are in a LDR.  Do you think this should be discussed before committing to each O/other?, What if either or both have a significant other how would you let your other half know what had happened? What steps would you take to ensure that you wouldnt be left not knowing.

    Personally in a previous relationship i was just left, no communication, no indication anything was wrong or that anything had happened to him, no matter when i brought the subject up i was never given any real indication of what steps would be taken, i just kept being ignored, in hindsight a big mistake on my part, but i have learnt a hard lesson, so in any further relationships that is definitely one thing i will be asking for and it will give me peace of mind.

Wednesday, 9 May 2012

Have i

Have i met the Man who will complete me
Have i met the Man who i will give myself to
Have i met the Man who will control me
Have i met the Man who will guide me
Have i met the Man who will nurture me
Have i met the Man who will love me
Have i met the Man who i will love in return
Have i met the Man who i will do everything in my power to make happy
Have i met the Man who i will finally submit to

Have i met Him, have i !!!!!

Sunday, 6 May 2012


Gosh i have just noticed that the page views to my little journal have gone over 20,000.  i just want to take this opportunity to say a huge thank you to everyone who has visited my page, left comments and to those who just love to look and leave...thank you all, i never expected that people would find what i post interesting, its just my ramblings and things i love about the lifestyle.

A Huge thanks to everyone.

Thursday, 3 May 2012

Would You!!!

i got sent this and thought it was funny but i thought i would ask the question Would you??? ...smiles

me...id have to say yea!!!...lol

Saturday, 28 April 2012

Shock and Disgust

Hi i read this on the internet and i am thinking to myself what on earth is the world coming to to allow such a thing to happen, i know that there are sickening things out there but to try and pass a law to allow this to happen...well what can i say!!!! absolutely and totally disgusting, is death not even sacred anymore!!!.....what do others think?

sorry im not the best at putting links on but hopefully you can copy and paste it to read the article


Sunday, 15 April 2012


i came across this photo and i thought it was beautiful as well as the words, oh to be owned like that, so i thought i would share this with you...do others feel the same?

Sunday, 8 April 2012

Happy Easter

I hope E/everyone has a lovely easter holiday and enjoy the time you have with your loved ones

Thursday, 5 April 2012

whoo hoo

Whoo hoo i just got my first underbust corset....i just had to tell everyone...smiles...i love it, i love it, i love it...it feels so sexy, just need to get use to wearing it and trying to breathe...smiles...why oh why did i leave it so long to buy one!!!!...i am going to buy a full corset now too...think i may have just got a corset bug!!...smiles. Do others love wearing them??

Tuesday, 3 April 2012

Sunday, 25 March 2012


I thought i would pose the following questions to submissive readers of my blog as i would be interested in hearing what they have to say.

Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?

Saturday, 10 March 2012


Hi i would like to pose a question regarding pain, if you are in a D/s or S/m relationship can you share with us what that is like for you, does it turn you on sexually, do you feel you are accepting of the pain being administered to you, do you feel a sense of giving to your Dominant. what would be your most favourite way of receiving pain. i would be interested in hearing what subs have to say.

Thursday, 16 February 2012

Three C's

i saw this whilst surfing the net and i thought it very appropriate given the lifestyle we are in, so i thought i would share it with you.


well im back, i was away for a few days, to a lovely sunny, warm climate and now i have returned to dismal, wet weather, oh well, its good to be home though.

Monday, 6 February 2012


i was wanting to know what my submissive readers thought about Their Dominants putting Their mark on Their submissive's body either permanently or via some delicious punishment...smiling.

Permanent marks are something Dominants and submissives think and talk about occasionally. There is nothing like knowing that you carry some form of mark somewhere on your body proudly show His Ownership of you.

But then there is the downside of this if Y/your relationship should end, i know i have been in that position myself, though thank goodness i never got their name tattooed onto my skin so it would be advisable never to do this, though i thought my relationship with that person was serious given the number of years we had been together.

i can think of three types of permanent markings, Branding, Tattoos and cuttings and these have their pros and cons but one would need to consider the risks that come with these types of markings. Then there are the markings that come with the cane, flogger, etc, with these types of implements come the bruises, welts, etc, these are also delicious to wear proudly for your Dominant but fade quickly unless of course they are repeated.

But lets look at the permanent markings.

What is branding? It is the burning of a symbol, name or other image of ownership into the skin of a person with the intention of making the scar permanent using a hot or cold iron. This obviously needs to be done safely and if a Dominant and His slave decide to have this done they should get an expert to do it for them, unless of course the Dominant is an expert in this.

Then we have tattoos as another category of permanent marking. Again this should be only done by a skin artist, i personally love tattoos and have a couple myself, but as i said i think it is a better idea not to have the Dominants name put into the tattoo. One would also need to be careful of possible diseases e.g HIV etc which could be transmitted via the needles.

Cutting is another form of permanent marking. This is very risky, again this should only be done by an expert. In this type of marking we also have tattoos that are created by the removal of the skin this is called Scarification, horrendous to look at which it is first done but the final result is quite amazing. This is definitely not something an amateur should attempt!!!

So it would be an idea to be absolutely sure that this is something you B/both really want to do and are committed to each O/other.

So would any of my submissive readers like to wear their Dominants mark? and would any of my Dominant readers have a preference for their submissive to wear their mark? i would be interested in hearing what you say.

Saturday, 21 January 2012

Sexual aids

i read this article on a well known main street chemist in the uk selling sexual aids in some of their shops and i was wondering what my readers thought of this, do you think its a good idea or do you think things such as sexual aids should be hidden and only sold in establishments for that specific purpose.


here is the link, im not sure if i have done this right but you could copy and paste it to view it, im not very techy...smiles

Thursday, 12 January 2012


i was just wondering do any of my readers, Dominant or submissive dress in a certain way. Are you required to dress/undress in a certain way for your Dominant? or does your Dominant dress in a certain way when you B/both scene together?