I thought i would pose the following questions to submissive readers of my blog as i would be interested in hearing what they have to say.
Has your submission increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your feelings or circumstance?
Great question, blossom :)
ReplyDeleteFor me ... I was so into wanting to explore my submissive feelings and now... Probably because I am not feeling the same way about my DM...I find myself stuffing those feelings down. Pushing them aside for now. I WANT to submit and I WANT that control but he's not giving it to me so I am trying hard not to focus and think "as much" about submission.
Not sure if I answered your question lol
Fondly,
Sky
Read this earlier and had to have a think about it (i am terrible for overthinking...you have been warned lol).
ReplyDeleteI think as a relationship develops, trust and respect is more firmly established and it naturally progresses so i think its fair to say that yes my submission has grown in the respect that its more in depth but mostly my thought process has changed.
I think the feelings and thoughts of submission dont ever go away but they can possibly decrease if the dynamic is not maintained by both ie the dominant and the submissive.
No personally i have never felt the need to re negotiate my submission and in the nature of our dynamic its not something i would feel comfortable with. Of course there may be changes made as we go along this path which may alter where we were originally heading.
hope that makes some sense
tori x
Hmmm, I feel like my submission has increased greatly over time. The more time goes by the more trust I have and the closer we become.
ReplyDeleteOccasionally there have been renegotiation's, but they have always been in the realm of going deeper, not backing off.