Fisting is a sexual activity that involves inserting a hand into the vagina or in some cases the rectum if one is brave enough!!!. Once insertion is complete, the fingers either naturally clench into a fist or remain straight . Fisting may be performed with or without a partner. There are great risks when Fisting and it can cause serious injury when it isnt done right so its important that you use a safeword if you are not happy.
This is a hard limit of mine but edging towards soft limit again, in that the only time this happened to me i got hurt, and ended up bleeding because the other person didnt prepare me, was very rough and forceful before i knew what was happening he had just shoved 4 fingers inside of me thinking that this would do the job basically, i was told by him that he knew how to do it, but it was a hard lesson learned by me. i was in tears when i realised what had just happened and stopped him immediately, but i was already bleeding by then, he did panic when he realised what he done, but it was too late, i was sore for days after and it put me off as you can image to think about even trying it again, yet it was something that i really wanted to experience but in a much more relaxed situation. But i am thinking maybe i should look at this again!!! it is something that i would love to try but under the right circumstances this time and i will be more careful...smiles
But i was just wondering what others thought about fisting? Have you tried it? did you like it? how long did it take you to be able to do it? is it something that both your Master and you enjoy?
Ow, ow, ow! I have never done it. I happen to love pain but I'm not sure about this type of pain. On the other hand, I know a lot of people do it (even outside of D/s) so it can't be all bad, right? I just don't know..... But do share with us, please, if you experience it again!
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hi squirrel
Deletei would love to share it with you if i do it again!!! smiles
blossom xx
Master and I have never done it together, but we've talked about it. I'm freakishly tight (even for having given birth to my daughter) and while I'm not sure I could do it without permanently stretching things, he swears it would, and we could get there in a couple of weeks of slowly working on it.
ReplyDeleteI think about trying it a lot. It seems like it'd be fun, but I don't know if I could risk my bits that much.
you will know when the time is right kitten im sure, i would still like to try it again even though i had the bad experience. Do think about though.
Deleteblossom x
OOh well bossman has done it to me but i was so deep into subspace or floaty as i call it that i cant explain how it felt to be honest...i was just gone with the fairies lol
ReplyDeleteplenty of lube...lots and lots of lube and being relaxed, i think it helped that he had got me to the floaty feeling first which for me was a good s/m session to put me into subspace and then the fisting, i wasnt expecting it ie as he never said he planned to do it so i wander if another element was because i didnt know he planned to, that in itself avoided the fear of it and the subsequent tensing up.
tori xx
oh lucky you then tori, done under the right circumstances and as you said maybe not even being told and just letting it happen may be the way to go.
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ouch! i think its a hard limit for me ..putting the baby's head back the other way? uh-uh, no thank you. Physically though, i am unable to comply, even if i was able to get round the hard limit factor.
ReplyDeletenever thought of it that way littleone...lol
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