- i just thought i would pose a question to my readers, something that has happened to me and may happen to O/others.
If you are in an M/s or D/s relationship and are largely dependent on your Owner, have you discussed what would happen if something fatal happened to your Owner or yourself, or if either of You went into hospital, thinking mostly if you are in a LDR. Do you think this should be discussed before committing to each O/other?, What if either or both have a significant other how would you let your other half know what had happened? What steps would you take to ensure that you wouldnt be left not knowing.
Personally in a previous relationship i was just left, no communication, no indication anything was wrong or that anything had happened to him, no matter when i brought the subject up i was never given any real indication of what steps would be taken, i just kept being ignored, in hindsight a big mistake on my part, but i have learnt a hard lesson, so in any further relationships that is definitely one thing i will be asking for and it will give me peace of mind.
A Blossom of pinkness for blossom. .
Thursday, 31 May 2012
Sudden Change
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Something like this happened to me a long time ago. LDR but really only online. It was strange and a little upsetting. I put it down to 'he just disappeared because what we had was not right for Him and He was obviously too much a coward to tell me.' However it never quite left me that something could have happened to him or his family. I don't knw what the answer is, what the measures should be. If the worst should happen and there is a grieving wife/partner somewhere, is it reasonable that she pay attention to the loss and grief feelings of the slut far away? I think it would be an exceptional woman who could do that. Maybe this is another danger of the LDR...in reality, in real life, there are no rights or responsibilites. Harsh..but the truth. The slut far away is just that..no more, no less.
ReplyDeleteThis is an interesting post, blossom. I have to say that is a really strange situation for both you and littleOne - that neither of you ever really found out what had happened.
ReplyDeleteMaster and I have never specifically talked about it, but I've thought about it. Wolf has a family member who knows about us. I'd probably call him if Wolf dropped off the face of the earth, although I have no idea whether he would tell me anything or not. :-) I don't know what Wolf would do if I disappeared.
A blog I read awhile ago suggested being friends on facebook. Maybe even with a 'phony' friend account. The idea was that if something bad happened, people would likely comment on it.
Do you have any solutions in mind blossom?