What if
i cant move on
What if
i lose my submissiveness
What if
im not strong enough to carry on with this lifestyle
What if
i just give up
What if
im unable to give my all to Another
What if
i start to doubt my ability in my submission
What if
i never have those feelings ever again
What if
these doubts stay with me
What if
just what if ....
"What if...?" can be such a strong thought. Sometimes it leads us down scary, deep, dark holes and the doubt it produces can take over.
ReplyDeleteWhat if all of that does happen? I think you should answer your questions. When I start going down that "what if" hole, that's what I do, I answer my questions. What if such and such does happen? And my answer has always been, "I'll find a way to survive". It builds my confidence and reassures me that life will go and I am strong enough to survive, and I can climb out of the hole of self-doubt and move forward knowing who I am and what I am about.
So, face your "what if"'s. That is my suggestion.
I think the actuality of all those coming to fruition is unlikely. Yet, we all have doubts and re-examine ourselves at a point. You can "what if" things until your blue in the face. Like, what if I die in a car crash today? What if an asteroid comes along and destroys the earth? We can :what if" things to death. You just have to believe in yourself and who you are. The rest will fall into place in time.
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Hi Alice
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking time to comment and welcome to my blog.
All that you have said makes good sense, and i have been facing my 'what ifs' and im getting there, but one can take a step back now and again which is what happened recently. But i am determined to move forward.
blossom x
Hello Sir
ReplyDeleteThank you for the comforting words of 'car crash', 'asteroids' and 'destroys the earth', all in a few lines...lol. You just brought me back into the land of the living...lol.
I do agree with You and as i said to Alice i am determined to move forward just had a small lapse of self confidence.
blossom x