Collars

I was reading a post on fetlife about the wearing of collars whether its a physical or emotional collar.

When i was collared to a previous Dom i wore physical collars, an everyday collar and then when we played on cam and in real life when we met up i wore my leather collar with leash attached. For me i couldnt wait to wear something that He put around my neck, even though i knew i belonged to Him in every aspect it was the icing on the cake as they say, when i felt His hands around my neck and then placing each collar on my bare neck. To me this meant the world and i wore each of my collars with pride. So i loved the feeling of a physical collar, showing proudly His ownership of me, even though no one knew anything about what i was wearing and what it meant, but i did, *smiles into myself*.

My favourite collar was my leather one with my leash attached to it, i loved sitting by His feet while He held it in His hand or draped it over the arm of a chair or took me for a walk. Putting on that collar just filled me with so much feeling and emotion.

So i thought i would ask what the readers of my blog thought about collars?

Sensory Deprivation

I had mentioned in a comment on my video clip showing a girl wearing a latex ball that i would feel claustrephobic if i was to wear a hood or even anything over my face. This got me thinking about Sensory Depriviation.

So what is Sensory Deprivation, its the deliberate removal of our senses. Whether its the wearing of a hood, a blindfold, ear plugs, gloves etc, and im sure somewhere in the bdsm world there are other mechanisms to remove other senses etc, of which i wouldnt be aware given i havent had much experience or practice in this type of play. Now a part of me would feel safe enough wearing a blindfold or ear plugs as i feel that this is quite erotic the not knowing of what is going to happen to you next, the knowledge that your Dom is in the room with you or is he???, trying to feel any vibration around you, the nervousnous you feel until know He is with you.

This is obviously very light sensory deprivation but what about those who wear a hood or a suit, i often wonder how they cope with the wearing of these items of clothing. Even the look of a hood is terrifying to me!!!

But yet they get so much out of wearing these items, how do they do it??? what feelings do they get out of it??? how do they manage to breathe??? is there special training to wear these items??? is the same type of aftercare given coming out of their confinement??? i would imagine it would be different given the intensity of what they are experiencing. i would think that great care would need to be given, because i would imagine that if this type of play isnt done correctly then this could cause the sub anxiety, or play havoc with their imagination. To me this type of play isnt for the faint hearted...lol

Would a Dom who enjoyed this type of play try to push his sub's limits to trying this out if they knew it was a hard limit for the sub??? How far would he go???

As usual i have a lot of questions (wouldnt be like me!!!) so I would love to hear other's opinions/thoughts on this type of play and if they have experienced it and what they thought about it.

Fun or Not

Would this be anyone's cup of tea!!!! You would think the guy in the mask would come better prepared, im sure he is light headed after blowing the balloon up...lol

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Massage

Well readers i just have to share this with you. I have come back from a couple of days away yet again!!!!!...lol and have just had the most superb deep massage ever. Dont get me wrong the pain i felt at the bottom of my back and the tops of my shoulders was sore, very sore, but as she pushed down with each movement it was the sensations that i received each time going down to a certain spot!!!! then the lightness of her touch on each pressure point all i can say is wow, such a glorious feeling of pain mixed in with pleasure.

Then i had a leg scrub, the feeling of that being rubbed into each leg, again a yummy feeling, and the hotness of the cloth washing it away. But then came the cool silkiness of the cream oil being rubbed into each leg, the smoothness of each stroke up to the tops of my thighs...mmmm. Hot stones then being applied to massage each leg, well what can i say, again another superb sensation reaching a certain point, what wicked thoughts i had then!!!! wrong or what?????

Oh i could do with a massage like that every day and i would never say no...lol.

Has any others experienced sensations like that when receiving one?

What to talk about

Obviously there is loads to talk about regarding bdsm, but most of the blogs that i have been reading or looking through are about submissives and their relationships with their Masters. I feel at a loss sometimes that i dont have that myself and begin to wonder what is the point of carrying on with a blog if there isnt that much in it that is interesting to readers. Is this what readers want to read in blogs the dynamics of a D/s relationship or random thoughts, some topics. It would be nice to get ideas of what readers would like to read.

Pet Play

Searching through the multitude bdsm sites i have come across pet play or training which include pony, kitten, puppy to name but a few, probably the more popular form of play and i was wondering if this would appeal to the majority of submissives or does it take a special type of submissive. The submissives and trainers who do have this type of relationship would it be sexual or non sexual for them? For example the simple stroke of a submissives neck or hair would this be classed as sexual or a pony girl pulling a sulky with her owner in it would this be classed as sexual?

I use to wear my leash at times and would walk behind my Master but i never thought of it as any type of pet play, i assumed it was to do with pure control, does it mean that subconsciously that i was open to perhaps becoming a kitten or puppy for Him if he had of taken it that little bit further, a little bit of me thinks that i may have enjoyed this type of training/role play? To hear One say during aftercare the spoken words 'well done my little pet' i think there is something warm and cuddly in those words.

But what is exactly involved in this type of role play, i would imagine taking on all the mannerisms of the particular pet you would wish to become, whether its barking, meowing, or even whinnying, being playful, cuddling up to your owner, being fed, eating out of a bowl, personnally i think that this would be my limit, I am in awe of those submissives who go the whole way in fully becoming the particular animal they wish to be. For example pony girls, who wear full harnesses, masks etc, who trot whilst pulling sulkies, i would love to know what they actually get out of this type of roleplay.

Can the tables be turned during these role plays, one would always assume that its the submissive who becomes the pet but could the submissive take on a more dominant role, i dont know that much about it.

I would be interested in hearing from those who have had the pleasure of this type of roleplay and what they got from it, how it made them feel, would they like to be in that role constantly?

Training Techniques

I was wondering if Doms have favourite training techniques that they liked to use when undertaking the training of a new sub and if they would like to share some of the techniques with us as there may be potential subs out there wondering what types of training would be used should they decide to go down the road of bdsm.