A question that i would like to throw out.
Do you feel your wants and needs as submissive are being fulfilled?? and if not what steps would you take to ensure they would be.
Personally for me i can say without a word of doubt that mine are being met whole heartedly. Thank you and ~smiles at Sir~
I have started to realise that while i live my life my life as a wife and mother my wants,needs,desires and dreams will never be fulfilled. Drastic steps will need to be taken on my part and i'm ready to take them..i feel i have to.
ReplyDeletesarah
That was an interesting comment by Sarah. Hopes she returns and explains what are these drastic steps she is going to take.
ReplyDeleteFD
Drastic steps...i know that to ultimately find the fulfillment i need my family will suffer. I am not sure how much longer i can carry on living a lie.
ReplyDeleteI have always put my familys needs first but as my daughters grow older they need me less and less so maybe its the right time to put myself first for a change. Very selfish i know and quite out of character for me but i am not getting any younger..maybe its time for me!
The steps i mentioned involve hiring a housekeeper and gardener to allow me the freedom to leave my home and family in capable hands whilst i pursue the life i so desperately crave.
sarah
No, I don't always feel fulfilled in regards to my wants and needs. But that's mostly because some of them are very difficult, even impossible to fulfill at this time. Maybe someday, I certainly dream of someday, but for now I choose to be content and happy with what I can have now. That said, I do feel fulfilled as a wife and a mother. There are things I want to experience but I recognize the timing isn't right.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sarah for coming back and clarifying what steps you would be taking should you need to find the fulfilment you crave.
ReplyDeleteObviously that would take a lot of consideration to take a major step like that, i hope you have some support to help you with this.
Hugs
blossom xx
Hi FD
ReplyDeletei think we all were asking the question you had raised and thanks to Sarah she has clarified that for us.
blossom xx
Hi Alice
ReplyDeletelife dictates at times at what we can and cannot do, but the fact that during some aspects of our daily lives we can feel some type of fulfilment means something. Should it be the smallest thing it helps with focusing on what is important to us.
blossom xx
Yes, Blossom, Sarah was kind enough to clarify what she meant and there is no question that leaving her home and her daughters (do you have a husband, Sarah?) is a major step even if she leaves them in capable hands with a housekeeper and a gardener.
ReplyDeleteSarah, have you discussed with them how this new lifestyle will work for all of you? Will you return for visits?
I can understand you don't want to live a lie and want to pursue the lifestyle you crave and I hope you will return to tell us how it all works out. It's obvious you want this, but you are taking a huge leap of faith that it will go the way you want.
And have you craved this lifestyle very long?
FD
I am a lucky one; my wants and needs as a submissive are indeed being met and have been for quite some time. My Sir is a sadist who knows how to push me just far enough.. and each time, a bit more.
ReplyDeleteFlorida Dom..
ReplyDeleteSir, i write a blog on here..just random thoughts usually but sometimes a little more. Its called Diary of a submissive women and starts at the beginning of my yearnings for a submissive life and will answer all your questions.
sarah
hi Nancy thank you for taking the time to visit my wee blog and comment. you are certainly lucky to have a Dom that meets all your needs and knows when just to push you enough!!!
ReplyDeleteblossom x
Hi sarah
ReplyDeletei see your are still having problems commenting on your own name, sorry i cant help you any further with this, not very techie!!..lol
blossom x