A good friend of mine sent me this video and i wanted to share it with you all. i love the music that accompanies the images that are in the video. Thank you. (you know who you are!!)
A Blossom of pinkness for blossom. .
Thursday, 20 October 2011
Friday, 14 October 2011
Reflection
“You’re not the only one who’s made mistakes, but they’re the only things that you can truly call your own. ” — Unknown
Monday, 10 October 2011
Being Open
When a submissive first has contact with a potential Dominant questions are asked, exactly how open would you be with Him. Do you find it easy to share aspects of your life with someone who you have just met? or do you close up and not share.
Obviously we all have to feel comfortable with the person we are talking with and i feel it all depends on the Dominant, to me its his responsibility to make the submissive relax and feel that she can share and tell Him anything and not feel she is being interrogated.
i know with Sir i felt totally relaxed from the very beginning, i could share everything and anything He asked me, and if i had a problem in talking about anything in particular He didnt push me on it but said that i could talk to Him when i felt the time was right.
To start off this way leads to building up of trust, faith etc in the Dominant so that activities that both enjoy will be carried out safely, so being as open as you possibly can with your Dominant is paramount. Though i know there are certain things that a submissive may not wish to say to the Dominant, as they feel that it will put the Dominant off, they feel they may be responsible for what happened to them, but if you meet the right person believe me it will be so easy for you to talk about it, and they will take the time and let it come out naturally, they wont rush you, if he is the Dominant for you.
Obviously we all have to feel comfortable with the person we are talking with and i feel it all depends on the Dominant, to me its his responsibility to make the submissive relax and feel that she can share and tell Him anything and not feel she is being interrogated.
i know with Sir i felt totally relaxed from the very beginning, i could share everything and anything He asked me, and if i had a problem in talking about anything in particular He didnt push me on it but said that i could talk to Him when i felt the time was right.
To start off this way leads to building up of trust, faith etc in the Dominant so that activities that both enjoy will be carried out safely, so being as open as you possibly can with your Dominant is paramount. Though i know there are certain things that a submissive may not wish to say to the Dominant, as they feel that it will put the Dominant off, they feel they may be responsible for what happened to them, but if you meet the right person believe me it will be so easy for you to talk about it, and they will take the time and let it come out naturally, they wont rush you, if he is the Dominant for you.
Thursday, 6 October 2011
Control
i just wanted to throw a question out to the readers of my blog, a submissive's life is controlled by her Dominant, be it for what she is allowed to eat, drink, some even to the point of going to the bathroom. So the questions i wanted to ask is, does this enhance your submission or do you feel it stiffles your submission?
Personally i love to know that a Dominant would have that much control over me, especially if in a LDR, i think it is needed more to focus the submissive on her submission, i know it can be awkward at times especially if one needs to use the bathroom urgently...lol, but rules can be set for episodes like that.
Personally i love to know that a Dominant would have that much control over me, especially if in a LDR, i think it is needed more to focus the submissive on her submission, i know it can be awkward at times especially if one needs to use the bathroom urgently...lol, but rules can be set for episodes like that.
Saturday, 1 October 2011
Ritual
"Ritual is important. It is fulfilling and meaningful. It is beautiful. It is symbolic, mnemonic, and instructive. It establishes protocols. It expresses, defines, and clarifies conditions. It is essential to, and ingredient within, civilization. Similarly, do not overlook the significance and value of symbolism.” John Norman
Do you have a favourite ritual?
Do you have a favourite ritual?
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