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Thursday, 7 April 2011

Cumming on Command

I was reading a question on fetlife regarding Cumming on Command and i am quite intrigued by this, wanting to know can this actually be achieved by a Dom and their submissive. You read that Doms say their submissive can do this either by a certain choice of words and no physical contact or certain touches.

As this is something that i have never experienced i was wanting to know if any Doms or subs who read my blog have been trained to do this? Are there any Doms who have successfully trained their subs to do this? Is this a long process to actually train a submissive to cum on command? Have any subs been trained to achieve this? How does it feel to do this without any physical contact? Do you get the same enjoyment?

Again more questions from me!!!..lol. Looking forward to hearing what O/others have to say on this.

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  1. I have not but I am also filled with the same questions. I am looking forward to reading others responses.

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  2. Hey Blossum, fortunately my M and I worked for a good year on this very thing. It took a long while and a LOT of Mind play, but it did eventually happen. I think the hardest thing to overcome was just mentally accepting that it could happen. I had to constantly remind myself that it could. But it started with orgasm control during play or sex and then slowly over time he began removing things...actual intercourse, play, toys, then toys. Meanwhile, he kept mental play in and eventually began withdrawing that too. I'll admit, I still do not think it would have ever succeeded had I not gotten myself in a mental space of subconciously keeping myself at the edge for his command. It doesn't happen often but when it does, it's pretty cool :)

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  3. Hi Lil

    Thank you for commenting, likewise looking forward to reading comments.

    blossom xx

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  4. Hi Banana Boat

    Great name..lol...thank you for commenting and visiting my site, must pay a wee visit to yours.
    Thank you for sharing your experience with my readers and wow a year to get to the stage you and your Master are both at. I have done orgasm control and denial but never gone any further than that. Does your Master use verbal or physical touch to make you cum on command?

    blossom xx

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  5. Hey Blossom! Sorry it took me a few to respond. But he actually mixes it up now, alternating. Although...he does get his jollies being able to do it verbally in a public setting. He's sadistic that way lol.

    Banana xoxo

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  6. I have heard of others who claim to be able to do this. It would be a fun project to work on and it is something that I believe would give a Dom a great sense of his control. As Banana Boat says, "he does get his jollies being able to do it verbally in a public setting." What delightfully sadistic fun!!!

    P xx

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  7. A friend got me in a trance today while he programmed a few sentences in my memory and I came several times on command after that. It was good fun and very surprising.

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  8. Hello, I have been trying to ejaculate without orgasm for a while. As I was turned on by the notion of tasting it, but lost my nerve after I came. At first I was trying to push it out but with no results. Then just for fun I stopped masturbating and promised myself I wouldn't even touch myself at all. After about three days I was going crazy and started to watch a porn scene, still without touching myself. I held my breath and bushed as hard as I could and cum started to just pour out the top. The trick I guess was to wait a few days so it would build up enough. It doesn't work every day,only if I wait a few days.

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  9. i am the boy to a wonderful Daddy. i have just finished a cum control training with my Sir and it was wonderful, 2 weeks of denying orgasms, since i been in this phase Sir decided is a good time for me to start to cum for Him on command.
    Will keep You posted on any progress and hopefully enjoyment for my Sir,

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  10. Hey everyone. It is definitely possible to cum on command. The important thing it remember is that it is all in your head. My Dom and I have found that when he's is telling my a story and I get worked up it is the easiest to cum on command. However to actually cum without any sexual isn't that much harder. When my Dom tells me to cum I relax and think about how much I want it and how pleased my Dom will be and I push. After about 5 seconds I'm cumming. It is a very rewarding trick and I recommend to all that time be given to learn this trick. Remember it's all about pleasure don't think too hard or else it won't work. It should feel very natural. Thanks to all!

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  11. I self-trained myself to cum on command. I use vibrating panties and the word "kapow". I started by moaning kapow right before the panties gave me an orgasm. Then after a month, every time I said kapow gave me an orgasm without the panties.

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    1. omg i would stick it so deep in u and fill u up with my load completely

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  12. hey was lookin online for cumming on command and your blog came up (was nosy and had a look threw to see what answers you got was just wondering to the people who say they are doing it and or have learnt it if they have any tips or infomation on how it is done ? xx

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    1. Drpeaceoutsam7 May 2013 at 20:46

      I self-trained myself to cum on command. I use vibrating panties and the word "kapow". I started by moaning kapow right before the panties gave me an orgasm. Then after a month, every time I said kapow gave me an orgasm without the panties.

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  13. Drpeaceoutsam7 May 2013 at 20:45

    I self-trained myself to cum on command. I use vibrating panties and the word "kapow". I started by moaning kapow right before the panties gave me an orgasm. Then after a month, every time I said kapow gave me an orgasm without the panties.

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  14. Salutations, I just thought I would throw in my 2 cents even though the thread seems a bit old. This is most certainly possible, I have personally trained several people to cum with no physical contact at all. There may be several methods of doing so but I find NLP anchoring the most effective. Once the mind has associated the feeling of an orgasm with the words you choose to say, you are good to go. I've been training a current sub for a month or so with only very small attention to this in particular and already she is able to cum on command when face to face. I do know others that I could just call on the phone though. Just start playing with orgasm denial and allowing release only when you give that command and progress towards it happening without doubt stimulation. Experiment and explore! That is half the fun.

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    1. I self-trained myself to cum on command. I use vibrating panties and the word "kapow". I started by moaning kapow right before the panties gave me an orgasm. Then after a month, every time I said kapow gave me an orgasm without the panties.

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    2. Trying to train myself also

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  15. I luv to cum in medicine cup nd taste! Tasting my own semen is beautiful

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  16. I luv to cum in medicine cup nd taste! Tasting my own semen is beautiful

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  17. Yum im gonna cum for myself, would luv a countdown! Make me driink every drop of cum!

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  18. Yum im gonna cum for myself, would luv a countdown! Make me driink every drop of cum!

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  19. Luv to cum on command! Oh yes im gonna taste my semen, got my medicine cup to ejaculate into! Time for me to taste my hot think sticky cum!! Yum yum!

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  20. Oh yes that tasted awesome!

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  21. Im making myself cum again!tasted so good! Luv my semen!!

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  22. Reply. If have same Fetish! About to cum in my cup again! Yum yum yum!!

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  23. Reply. If have same Fetish! About to cum in my cup again! Yum yum yum!!

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  24. Tasting my semen nd luv the taste!! Half filled my medicine cup! Now to enjoy! Yummy!

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  25. Tasting my semen nd luv the taste!! Half filled my medicine cup! Now to enjoy! Yummy!

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  26. Another erection means my cum cup 2b used again. Looking forward 2 tastin my sweet semen!

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  27. Another erection means my cum cup 2b used again. Looking forward 2 tastin my sweet semen!

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  28. Omg! My cum is hot sticky heaven! More is better, two loads in my cum cup! Oh yes it tastes so good!!

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  29. I cum everyday in my cum cup nd taste my tasty semen!

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  30. Time to taste my semen again! I luv it!! Hot sticky sweet cum! Yum I cant wait. Cup is waiting for me to ejaculate in, hopefully big load of cum! 5 loads today, yum yum

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  31. Time to taste my semen again! I luv it!! Hot sticky sweet cum! Yum I cant wait. Cup is waiting for me to ejaculate in, hopefully big load of cum! 5 loads today, yum yum

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  32. Yes! Omg my semen tastes so good got to make myself cum again. Cant get enough! Luv being filmed masturbating, tastin cum! Luv Wanking in front of mistresses friends nd made to cum on command!!

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  33. Time to taste my hot cum! Yes I luv cumming in my special cup!! Omg, my semen tastes really really good! Yes give it to me! Luv being dirty slut!

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  34. Omg that load was sweet! Yum yum yum!! I have to cum again, I want more cum!!

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  35. I cant stop! More semen in my Cum cup pls! Sweet sweet semen! Yes!! Oh yes im cumming in my cup! Oh yeah tasted sweet as the last load!

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  36. Tasted 7 loads of my own cum today! Record!! Still want more, ok 1 more load to finish. So much fun!! Luv my Fetish! Taste my Cum everyday! Luv the taste of my cum! Yum! Yum!

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  37. Tasted 7 loads of my own cum today! Record!! Still want more, ok 1 more load to finish. So much fun!! Luv my Fetish! Taste my Cum everyday! Luv the taste of my cum! Yum! Yum!

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  38. I cant think of doing something better than ejaculating in my medicine cup! My sweet hot thick cum just For me to taste!! Got a load in cup ready to drink. I cant wait to taste my ejaculation!!

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  39. I cant think of doing something better than ejaculating in my medicine cup! My sweet hot thick cum just For me to taste!! Got a load in cup ready to drink. I cant wait to taste my ejaculation!!

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  40. Im masturbating again, cum cup ready. 4 more semen, which means tasting every last drop of tasty hot cum! Luv it!! Yum yum again!

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  41. Looking forward to masturbating into my medicine cup nd Tasting my own semen! Training myself to cum on command. I luv my Fetish, very rewarding!eagerly waiting for sweet hot cum! So good!! Cum cup is ready 2b ejaculated into. Yum tasty cum!!

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  42. Looking forward to masturbating into my medicine cup nd Tasting my own semen! Training myself to cum on command. I luv my Fetish, very rewarding!eagerly waiting for sweet hot cum! So good!! Cum cup is ready 2b ejaculated into. Yum tasty cum!!

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  43. Looking forward to masturbating into my medicine cup nd Tasting my own semen! Training myself to cum on command. I luv my Fetish, very rewarding!eagerly waiting for sweet hot cum! So good!! Cum cup is ready 2b ejaculated into. Yum tasty cum!!

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  44. Time for a cum cup break, luv Tasting the rewards of my Fetish! My sweet semen hot nd tasty! Freshly milked! Keep to ttastr my ejaculate luv my cum!

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  45. Eager to taste every drop of my own semen! Luv to obey my mistress luv being filmed cumming on command! Mistress has made me luv Tasting my own cum, taste everyday nd luv it! Ive got Fetish, so drinking my semen! Cum cup ready to catch every drop cum. Yum yum yum!

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  46. Eager to taste every drop of my own semen! Luv to obey my mistress luv being filmed cumming on command! Mistress has made me luv Tasting my own cum, taste everyday nd luv it! Ive got Fetish, so drinking my semen! Cum cup ready to catch every drop cum. Yum yum yum!

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  47. My medicine cup has 10ml of semen ready for tasting! Cant wait, luv the taste to much. Or do I ejaculate more into cup!?

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  48. Yum yum, tastes so good! Luv swallowing every drop my hot cum! Omg,, so nice! Can still taste in my mouth. Luv my Fetish, my sweet semen! Better than beer! Luv masturbating in front of my mistress's friends! Then cumming on command, mistress makes me do it every single day! Now I luv it!

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  49. I have cum Fetish, my own cum! My cum cup is ready for load of my semen! Luv tasting my hot cum!!

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  50. Time 2 taste my hot cum! Medicine cup has load of ejaculate waiting 2b tasted nd swallowed! Love the taste of my sweet semen

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  51. Omg! My cum tasted so good! Its thick sticky nd so sweet! Milking myself again, cum cup ready to receive another load of tasty cum! Yum yum!!

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  52. I luv ejaculating in my cup,my mistress makes me taste my hot cum very regularly, beg mistress everyday! Luv it!!

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  53. Getting ready to ejaculate in my "medicine "cup again! More hot cum to swallow like a hungry slut! Cum loving slut who luvs Tasting cum! The more u do it the more u luv it. Pls b a nice big load to put in cup. Time to milk myself!!

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  54. Anybody else have same Fetish as me? All guys should give it a go, u may like the taste of urself? Im addicted to the taste! It's my hobby, been tastin my sweet cum for 8 years! Luv tasting my hot cum! I cant b the only one?

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  55. Milking myself again! Luv my hot cum!! Cant wait to taste. Gonna ejaculate straight into my mouth! Yum!

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  56. My sweet semen tastes so good!

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  57. My cum tastes so good! Luv to swallow every drop of my sweet semen!

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  58. I luv ejaculating in medicine cup nd tastin hot thick cum!

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  59. Cant wait to taste my load of semen! Yum! Luv being watched nd video'd. Tasting my hot cum! Yum yum,

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  60. Mistress is milking me into cup!love to obey my mistress! Mistress likes slave to beg and obey!my cum will b lube for mistress fucking slaves ass!

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  61. Got my cum cup nd mistress wants me to taste my cum! Luv tasting my cum! Yum

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  62. Lug being cum slut for my Mistress. Makes me taste everyday!

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