Being Open

When a submissive first has contact with a potential Dominant questions are asked, exactly how open would you be with Him. Do you find it easy to share aspects of your life with someone who you have just met? or do you close up and not share.

Obviously we all have to feel comfortable with the person we are talking with and i feel it all depends on the Dominant, to me its his responsibility to make the submissive relax and feel that she can share and tell Him anything and not feel she is being interrogated.

i know with Sir i felt totally relaxed from the very beginning, i could share everything and anything He asked me, and if i had a problem in talking about anything in particular He didnt push me on it but said that i could talk to Him when i felt the time was right.

To start off this way leads to building up of trust, faith etc in the Dominant so that activities that both enjoy will be carried out safely, so being as open as you possibly can with your Dominant is paramount. Though i know there are certain things that a submissive may not wish to say to the Dominant, as they feel that it will put the Dominant off, they feel they may be responsible for what happened to them, but if you meet the right person believe me it will be so easy for you to talk about it, and they will take the time and let it come out naturally, they wont rush you, if he is the Dominant for you.

Control

i just wanted to throw a question out to the readers of my blog, a submissive's life is controlled by her Dominant, be it for what she is allowed to eat, drink, some even to the point of going to the bathroom. So the questions i wanted to ask is, does this enhance your submission or do you feel it stiffles your submission?

Personally i love to know that a Dominant would have that much control over me, especially if in a LDR, i think it is needed more to focus the submissive on her submission, i know it can be awkward at times especially if one needs to use the bathroom urgently...lol, but rules can be set for episodes like that.

Ritual

"Ritual is important. It is fulfilling and meaningful. It is beautiful. It is symbolic, mnemonic, and instructive. It establishes protocols. It expresses, defines, and clarifies conditions. It is essential to, and ingredient within, civilization. Similarly, do not overlook the significance and value of symbolism.” John Norman

Do you have a favourite ritual?

Im Back

Hello fellow bloggers

Well i am back after a brilliant holiday, still feeling a bit jetlagged but am glad to be back, so hopefully catch up with all thats been going on in your blogs and get back to commenting.

Happy to be home.

blossom x

Away

Well folks i am going away for a well deserved holiday, i am looking forward to the break after working all year, and well a certain someone has been keeping me pretty busy too!!! ~smiling at Sir~ not that i am complaining, would i ever...lol. So will see you all in two weeks time.

Thank You

A big thank you to all of you who have visited my blog, i have just realised that i have had over 10,000 page views, thank you all so much, it makes the blog worthwhile when i see that.

Poem

This lovely piece of writing was sent to me by a friend and i would like to share it with you all.

a bond that ties together
tightly burns into the flesh
the rope marks are left
to be licked and soothed
kisses healing
with bites hinting at more to come
even drawing a little blood
to merge together